"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good date Idea for 18 year old?

timmylivingalie

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I still aint asked her out. I avoided her last nite and talked with one of her peers. I really cant think of anywhere good to take her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.

on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
 

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Pair A Dice said:
And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Because it's the easiest path and you admitted as much.

To put it in more mathematical terms, if I can get a girl from meeting to bed in 10 hours without alcohol or in 2 hours with alcohol, why would I choose the former?

OP - here's something I do on my dates and you can try, especially if you're not taking her to a drinking joint.

Have her meet you at your place, invite her in for a minute (she will get comfortable with surroundings), offer her a pregame shot (you take one too), then bounce somewhere - bowling, throw rocks in a river, walk in a park, whatever. Don't make it complicated, she wants to spend time with you so WHAT you do doesn't really matter.

Then back to your place to watch a movie, aka fvck like wild animals while a movie plays in the background.

GL
 

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backbreaker said:
I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.

on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
Probaly 7 or 8
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Probaly 7 or 8
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.



bam. game time
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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timmylivingalie said:
Probaly 7 or 8
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.


this does a few things

1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often


if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.


bam. game time
 

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backbreaker said:
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.


this does a few things

1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often


if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.


bam. game time
Thanks
 
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