timmylivingalie
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I still aint asked her out. I avoided her last nite and talked with one of her peers. I really cant think of anywhere good to take her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Because it's the easiest path and you admitted as much.Pair A Dice said:And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Probaly 7 or 8backbreaker said:I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.
on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.timmylivingalie said:Probaly 7 or 8
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.timmylivingalie said:Probaly 7 or 8
Thanksbackbreaker said:then this is a pretty easy play that will work.
make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.
this does a few things
1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often
if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.
bam. game time