"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good date Idea for 18 year old?

timmylivingalie

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I still aint asked her out. I avoided her last nite and talked with one of her peers. I really cant think of anywhere good to take her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.

on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
 

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Pair A Dice said:
And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Because it's the easiest path and you admitted as much.

To put it in more mathematical terms, if I can get a girl from meeting to bed in 10 hours without alcohol or in 2 hours with alcohol, why would I choose the former?

OP - here's something I do on my dates and you can try, especially if you're not taking her to a drinking joint.

Have her meet you at your place, invite her in for a minute (she will get comfortable with surroundings), offer her a pregame shot (you take one too), then bounce somewhere - bowling, throw rocks in a river, walk in a park, whatever. Don't make it complicated, she wants to spend time with you so WHAT you do doesn't really matter.

Then back to your place to watch a movie, aka fvck like wild animals while a movie plays in the background.

GL
 

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backbreaker said:
I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.

on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
Probaly 7 or 8
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Probaly 7 or 8
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.



bam. game time
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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timmylivingalie said:
Probaly 7 or 8
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.


this does a few things

1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often


if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.


bam. game time
 

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backbreaker said:
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.


this does a few things

1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often


if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.


bam. game time
Thanks
 
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