Aesthetix29
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What's good conversation for first dates ?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Good conversation for first dates...
- Thread starter Aesthetix29
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rainman4707
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Ask her how her day/week was.
Anything funny that you see or hear when you are out & about write them on your phone. You'll end up with a ton of funny stories that can lead to all sorts of convo.
Also listen to what she says, grab cues for further conversation, elaborate appropriately, and lead the conversation where you want it to go.
Also any of these topics :- Drama, violence, scandal, comedy, neurotic people, history.
Anything funny that you see or hear when you are out & about write them on your phone. You'll end up with a ton of funny stories that can lead to all sorts of convo.
Also listen to what she says, grab cues for further conversation, elaborate appropriately, and lead the conversation where you want it to go.
Also any of these topics :- Drama, violence, scandal, comedy, neurotic people, history.
RabidWolverine
Don Juan
I third the listen to her. She can lead (kinda) the conversation, you lead the interaction with your body language and conveying sexual content.
From what Ive noticed, without a doubt, is if a girl is REALLY into you and youve been playing the game well, she will make most of the conversation. You barely need to worry about it. Keep you mind more focused on your alpha body language and conveying sexual intent.
The Female brain is programmed better for social anyways.
9/10 if a chick is into you, shes gonna wanna ask you questions. EX- Are your parents still married? Or, she'll ask you what you do and you get a gut feeling she isnt JUST making conversation.
If you hit this point with a chick (shes asking you personal questions) your looking good. TEASE a little with your answers and be short and crisp with your responses. DO NOT give her long drawn out answers. Shes got girlfriends to talk her ear off and leave **** open to her imagination!! Her imagination is exactly where you want to be
In her imaginaton + Conveying Sexual Intent = Panties Drop
From what Ive noticed, without a doubt, is if a girl is REALLY into you and youve been playing the game well, she will make most of the conversation. You barely need to worry about it. Keep you mind more focused on your alpha body language and conveying sexual intent.
The Female brain is programmed better for social anyways.
9/10 if a chick is into you, shes gonna wanna ask you questions. EX- Are your parents still married? Or, she'll ask you what you do and you get a gut feeling she isnt JUST making conversation.
If you hit this point with a chick (shes asking you personal questions) your looking good. TEASE a little with your answers and be short and crisp with your responses. DO NOT give her long drawn out answers. Shes got girlfriends to talk her ear off and leave **** open to her imagination!! Her imagination is exactly where you want to be
In her imaginaton + Conveying Sexual Intent = Panties Drop
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BeDJ
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-BeDJ 2006
Just be yourself. Being yourself is the most crucial part of being successful with women. If that does not work after 10 women, be more social. Unfortunately, there is no magic potion to make you successful with women, otherwise, you'd have already heard of it by now.
Just be yourself. If that doesn't work, be more social.
Just tease her and say ridiculous things you think you would enjoy. Have fun and kino. You shouldn't be doing a traditional dinner date. Do an activity mini golf or bowling or better yet just take her to a bar and drink. You could throw darts. Don't worry about some awkward silence if it happens it happens. Enjoy yourself and it's the best shot you have at her enjoying her time too. Be sure to escalate as much as you can. Test the water with kino and kiss and make some excuse for something you want to show her at your place of course
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.