Aesthetix29
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What's good conversation for first dates ?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Good conversation for first dates...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rainman4707
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Ask her how her day/week was.
Anything funny that you see or hear when you are out & about write them on your phone. You'll end up with a ton of funny stories that can lead to all sorts of convo.
Also listen to what she says, grab cues for further conversation, elaborate appropriately, and lead the conversation where you want it to go.
Also any of these topics :- Drama, violence, scandal, comedy, neurotic people, history.
Anything funny that you see or hear when you are out & about write them on your phone. You'll end up with a ton of funny stories that can lead to all sorts of convo.
Also listen to what she says, grab cues for further conversation, elaborate appropriately, and lead the conversation where you want it to go.
Also any of these topics :- Drama, violence, scandal, comedy, neurotic people, history.
RabidWolverine
Don Juan
I third the listen to her. She can lead (kinda) the conversation, you lead the interaction with your body language and conveying sexual content.
From what Ive noticed, without a doubt, is if a girl is REALLY into you and youve been playing the game well, she will make most of the conversation. You barely need to worry about it. Keep you mind more focused on your alpha body language and conveying sexual intent.
The Female brain is programmed better for social anyways.
9/10 if a chick is into you, shes gonna wanna ask you questions. EX- Are your parents still married? Or, she'll ask you what you do and you get a gut feeling she isnt JUST making conversation.
If you hit this point with a chick (shes asking you personal questions) your looking good. TEASE a little with your answers and be short and crisp with your responses. DO NOT give her long drawn out answers. Shes got girlfriends to talk her ear off and leave **** open to her imagination!! Her imagination is exactly where you want to be
In her imaginaton + Conveying Sexual Intent = Panties Drop
From what Ive noticed, without a doubt, is if a girl is REALLY into you and youve been playing the game well, she will make most of the conversation. You barely need to worry about it. Keep you mind more focused on your alpha body language and conveying sexual intent.
The Female brain is programmed better for social anyways.
9/10 if a chick is into you, shes gonna wanna ask you questions. EX- Are your parents still married? Or, she'll ask you what you do and you get a gut feeling she isnt JUST making conversation.
If you hit this point with a chick (shes asking you personal questions) your looking good. TEASE a little with your answers and be short and crisp with your responses. DO NOT give her long drawn out answers. Shes got girlfriends to talk her ear off and leave **** open to her imagination!! Her imagination is exactly where you want to be
In her imaginaton + Conveying Sexual Intent = Panties Drop
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BeDJ
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-BeDJ 2006
Just be yourself. Being yourself is the most crucial part of being successful with women. If that does not work after 10 women, be more social. Unfortunately, there is no magic potion to make you successful with women, otherwise, you'd have already heard of it by now.
Just be yourself. If that doesn't work, be more social.
Just tease her and say ridiculous things you think you would enjoy. Have fun and kino. You shouldn't be doing a traditional dinner date. Do an activity mini golf or bowling or better yet just take her to a bar and drink. You could throw darts. Don't worry about some awkward silence if it happens it happens. Enjoy yourself and it's the best shot you have at her enjoying her time too. Be sure to escalate as much as you can. Test the water with kino and kiss and make some excuse for something you want to show her at your place of course
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.