Aesthetix29
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What's good conversation for first dates ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Good conversation for first dates...
- Thread starter Aesthetix29
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rainman4707
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Ask her how her day/week was.
Anything funny that you see or hear when you are out & about write them on your phone. You'll end up with a ton of funny stories that can lead to all sorts of convo.
Also listen to what she says, grab cues for further conversation, elaborate appropriately, and lead the conversation where you want it to go.
Also any of these topics :- Drama, violence, scandal, comedy, neurotic people, history.
Anything funny that you see or hear when you are out & about write them on your phone. You'll end up with a ton of funny stories that can lead to all sorts of convo.
Also listen to what she says, grab cues for further conversation, elaborate appropriately, and lead the conversation where you want it to go.
Also any of these topics :- Drama, violence, scandal, comedy, neurotic people, history.
RabidWolverine
Don Juan
I third the listen to her. She can lead (kinda) the conversation, you lead the interaction with your body language and conveying sexual content.
From what Ive noticed, without a doubt, is if a girl is REALLY into you and youve been playing the game well, she will make most of the conversation. You barely need to worry about it. Keep you mind more focused on your alpha body language and conveying sexual intent.
The Female brain is programmed better for social anyways.
9/10 if a chick is into you, shes gonna wanna ask you questions. EX- Are your parents still married? Or, she'll ask you what you do and you get a gut feeling she isnt JUST making conversation.
If you hit this point with a chick (shes asking you personal questions) your looking good. TEASE a little with your answers and be short and crisp with your responses. DO NOT give her long drawn out answers. Shes got girlfriends to talk her ear off and leave **** open to her imagination!! Her imagination is exactly where you want to be
In her imaginaton + Conveying Sexual Intent = Panties Drop
From what Ive noticed, without a doubt, is if a girl is REALLY into you and youve been playing the game well, she will make most of the conversation. You barely need to worry about it. Keep you mind more focused on your alpha body language and conveying sexual intent.
The Female brain is programmed better for social anyways.
9/10 if a chick is into you, shes gonna wanna ask you questions. EX- Are your parents still married? Or, she'll ask you what you do and you get a gut feeling she isnt JUST making conversation.
If you hit this point with a chick (shes asking you personal questions) your looking good. TEASE a little with your answers and be short and crisp with your responses. DO NOT give her long drawn out answers. Shes got girlfriends to talk her ear off and leave **** open to her imagination!! Her imagination is exactly where you want to be
In her imaginaton + Conveying Sexual Intent = Panties Drop
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BeDJ
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-BeDJ 2006
Just be yourself. Being yourself is the most crucial part of being successful with women. If that does not work after 10 women, be more social. Unfortunately, there is no magic potion to make you successful with women, otherwise, you'd have already heard of it by now.
Just be yourself. If that doesn't work, be more social.
Just tease her and say ridiculous things you think you would enjoy. Have fun and kino. You shouldn't be doing a traditional dinner date. Do an activity mini golf or bowling or better yet just take her to a bar and drink. You could throw darts. Don't worry about some awkward silence if it happens it happens. Enjoy yourself and it's the best shot you have at her enjoying her time too. Be sure to escalate as much as you can. Test the water with kino and kiss and make some excuse for something you want to show her at your place of course
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