"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Good consersation ideas - Icebreakers.

Dustin

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2006
Messages
113
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
Any body have some,We can make a huge list lol I know I'm running short on them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
Consersa---wha??

Just teasin' ya man.
 

Dustin

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2006
Messages
113
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
I recently have thought about started to talk t othem about a random thing and then being like oh sh*t sorry wrong person. Like in live on on the internet lol. Like not lookin torwards them at first.
 

The Juan and only

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2005
Messages
805
Reaction score
8
Age
38
Location
United Kingdom
if you're in a college/university situation then I've found that sitting down next to a girl in a communal library/work area and simply asking what she's working on/studying can be quite effective.

"oh, I see you're studying for a competitive swimming class... want me to show you the breaststroke?*wink*"

also, if you take chemistry then you've got a good excuse to tell a girl she has a nice rack with a flirty smile.

you can have fun with stuff like that but just saying hi and commenting on her necklace/piece of clothing whatever is probably good enough (unless the girl is really hot).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Ace of Flames

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
1,500
Reaction score
16
Location
Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
Originally posted by The Juan and only
if you're in a college/university situation
he's 15. kinda ruins your whole post. but still good stuff for the rest of us! haha jk.
 

The Juan and only

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2005
Messages
805
Reaction score
8
Age
38
Location
United Kingdom
Originally posted by Ace of Flames
he's 15. kinda ruins your whole post. but still good stuff for the rest of us! haha jk.
so he is :p

problems is, ice breakers are pretty much context sensitive.

it's hard to think of what to say as a line. generally I just meet people around college and coversations start....I can't really remember the kind of things i've said.

ok, one example that happened yesterday: I was queuing in the cafeteria and there was some music playing. I just said somehting like "what's this song called?" to the girls in front and a conversation started (surprisingly they knew the answer, i'd never even heard the song before)....anyway..that's my two cents..am looking forward to seeing what some of you come up with.

I'm sure similar thintgs can be used while queuing anywhere.
 

kona

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 19, 2005
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
for online sarging:

"I think it's really cute that you have a big crush on me."
 

Tha Realnezz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2004
Messages
1,352
Reaction score
8
I just say Hi and make a comment on the situation at hand .

Asking dumb questions,jokes,etc,.. I've learned,just leads to awkard silence..lol.
 
Top