"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good consersation ideas - Icebreakers.

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Any body have some,We can make a huge list lol I know I'm running short on them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Consersa---wha??

Just teasin' ya man.
 

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I recently have thought about started to talk t othem about a random thing and then being like oh sh*t sorry wrong person. Like in live on on the internet lol. Like not lookin torwards them at first.
 

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if you're in a college/university situation then I've found that sitting down next to a girl in a communal library/work area and simply asking what she's working on/studying can be quite effective.

"oh, I see you're studying for a competitive swimming class... want me to show you the breaststroke?*wink*"

also, if you take chemistry then you've got a good excuse to tell a girl she has a nice rack with a flirty smile.

you can have fun with stuff like that but just saying hi and commenting on her necklace/piece of clothing whatever is probably good enough (unless the girl is really hot).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
if you're in a college/university situation
he's 15. kinda ruins your whole post. but still good stuff for the rest of us! haha jk.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
he's 15. kinda ruins your whole post. but still good stuff for the rest of us! haha jk.
so he is :p

problems is, ice breakers are pretty much context sensitive.

it's hard to think of what to say as a line. generally I just meet people around college and coversations start....I can't really remember the kind of things i've said.

ok, one example that happened yesterday: I was queuing in the cafeteria and there was some music playing. I just said somehting like "what's this song called?" to the girls in front and a conversation started (surprisingly they knew the answer, i'd never even heard the song before)....anyway..that's my two cents..am looking forward to seeing what some of you come up with.

I'm sure similar thintgs can be used while queuing anywhere.
 

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for online sarging:

"I think it's really cute that you have a big crush on me."
 

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I just say Hi and make a comment on the situation at hand .

Asking dumb questions,jokes,etc,.. I've learned,just leads to awkard silence..lol.
 
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