"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good consersation ideas - Icebreakers.
- Thread starter Dustin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DJ_in_making
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Just teasin' ya man.
Ace of Flames
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lol, dont use that one.
The Juan and only
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"oh, I see you're studying for a competitive swimming class... want me to show you the breaststroke?*wink*"
also, if you take chemistry then you've got a good excuse to tell a girl she has a nice rack with a flirty smile.
you can have fun with stuff like that but just saying hi and commenting on her necklace/piece of clothing whatever is probably good enough (unless the girl is really hot).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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he's 15. kinda ruins your whole post. but still good stuff for the rest of us! haha jk.
The Juan and only
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so he is
problems is, ice breakers are pretty much context sensitive.
it's hard to think of what to say as a line. generally I just meet people around college and coversations start....I can't really remember the kind of things i've said.
ok, one example that happened yesterday: I was queuing in the cafeteria and there was some music playing. I just said somehting like "what's this song called?" to the girls in front and a conversation started (surprisingly they knew the answer, i'd never even heard the song before)....anyway..that's my two cents..am looking forward to seeing what some of you come up with.
I'm sure similar thintgs can be used while queuing anywhere.
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Asking dumb questions,jokes,etc,.. I've learned,just leads to awkard silence..lol.