"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good consersation ideas - Icebreakers.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DJ_in_making
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Just teasin' ya man.
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lol, dont use that one.
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"oh, I see you're studying for a competitive swimming class... want me to show you the breaststroke?*wink*"
also, if you take chemistry then you've got a good excuse to tell a girl she has a nice rack with a flirty smile.
you can have fun with stuff like that but just saying hi and commenting on her necklace/piece of clothing whatever is probably good enough (unless the girl is really hot).
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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he's 15. kinda ruins your whole post. but still good stuff for the rest of us! haha jk.
The Juan and only
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so he is
problems is, ice breakers are pretty much context sensitive.
it's hard to think of what to say as a line. generally I just meet people around college and coversations start....I can't really remember the kind of things i've said.
ok, one example that happened yesterday: I was queuing in the cafeteria and there was some music playing. I just said somehting like "what's this song called?" to the girls in front and a conversation started (surprisingly they knew the answer, i'd never even heard the song before)....anyway..that's my two cents..am looking forward to seeing what some of you come up with.
I'm sure similar thintgs can be used while queuing anywhere.
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Asking dumb questions,jokes,etc,.. I've learned,just leads to awkard silence..lol.