"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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good cold approach line -- discuss

wiggadude

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I haven't used this yet, but I think it will work great.

BEFORE USING THIS ONE YOU MUST ALREADY HAVE MADE EYE CONTACT WITH HER. Smile at her when you make eye contact. Make sure she smiles back.

Only then proceed:

Approach her and say "Hey, I think you're cute too..."

At this point she will very likely laugh. Then initiate a conversation with something else ("So, what are you doing here?").

Good idea?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe it could work on the right chick but you have to be careful starting out with a compliment because unless you have your inner game together very strongly, you could come across as trying to win her approval instead of man conveying his sexual interest.
 

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I think it would work. I've tried sumthin similar to this and it worked. Why would you wanna use it on an ugly girl anyway?:confused:
 

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Anything works if you ALREADY exchanged looks/smiles.

The point of a COLD APROACH is to iniate conversation from nowhere!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cold Approach

Thats pretty good, I'm going to try that one out this weekend.

One I use and it works about 90% of the time to strike up a conversation is: "There you are, I've been looking all over for you." or "Sorry I'm late (look at watch), I got caught up in traffic". Of course you should say it in a way that she know your not being serious.

I only do this in clubs or bars where you know the women are drinking and a little more open to that stuff.

I sometimes have this uncanny ability to make a girl feel like she's known me forever, even if its been only 5 minutes. When this happens you can rest assured you will be taking her home with you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
...It wont work for the ugly ones.
Yeah, it's hard to make eye contact if your hands are covering them. :p
 
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