"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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good cold approach line -- discuss

wiggadude

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I haven't used this yet, but I think it will work great.

BEFORE USING THIS ONE YOU MUST ALREADY HAVE MADE EYE CONTACT WITH HER. Smile at her when you make eye contact. Make sure she smiles back.

Only then proceed:

Approach her and say "Hey, I think you're cute too..."

At this point she will very likely laugh. Then initiate a conversation with something else ("So, what are you doing here?").

Good idea?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe it could work on the right chick but you have to be careful starting out with a compliment because unless you have your inner game together very strongly, you could come across as trying to win her approval instead of man conveying his sexual interest.
 

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I think it would work. I've tried sumthin similar to this and it worked. Why would you wanna use it on an ugly girl anyway?:confused:
 

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Anything works if you ALREADY exchanged looks/smiles.

The point of a COLD APROACH is to iniate conversation from nowhere!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cold Approach

Thats pretty good, I'm going to try that one out this weekend.

One I use and it works about 90% of the time to strike up a conversation is: "There you are, I've been looking all over for you." or "Sorry I'm late (look at watch), I got caught up in traffic". Of course you should say it in a way that she know your not being serious.

I only do this in clubs or bars where you know the women are drinking and a little more open to that stuff.

I sometimes have this uncanny ability to make a girl feel like she's known me forever, even if its been only 5 minutes. When this happens you can rest assured you will be taking her home with you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
...It wont work for the ugly ones.
Yeah, it's hard to make eye contact if your hands are covering them. :p
 
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