Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Going to far

Trumpetman

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Okk guys so on sat I was w/ my g/f and we were on the bus. It was like 11 and we were goin home from a band thing. We were gettin close and I started to creep my pants near her pu$$y. I eventually got there and started rubbing. She didn't stop me so I took it as a good thing but today one of her friends came up to me and was like brandon u pushin it a lil too far and said that my g/f was really uncomfortable that day. what do I do now guys?


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Brandon
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PiHiPlaya

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Don't rub on her while her friends are watching, it's distasteful.

Be a Gentleman

Be a Man

Get a Room
 

Porky

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She didn't stop you, she didn't say no, so you're blameless.

You're also in an LTR. Talk to her about it - I mean, the topic of sex has to come up at some point. If her talking to her friend about your sex life bothers you (and I know it would bother me, but only if her friends then judged me for it) then talk to her about that too.
 

jakeyboy

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just not on the f-ing bus ok. dont be a cheapass

its a highly public place even if it was pretty late. any normal girl would feel uncomforatable with the exception of a highly horny booty call. which i presume you would not want for a gf.
 

AFK Protector

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Originally posted by Trumpetman
We were gettin close and I started to creep my pants near her pu$$y. I eventually got there and started rubbing.
How do you creep your pants to someone's pvssy? That would look kinda weird. btw, you need to see where both of you are on this PDA business (PDA = public display of affection). But listen to PiHiPlaya....don't make her seem like some wh0re. Girls have that more than anything else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wcknightjr

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1) I think these two were relatively alone (no friends, direct witnesses, etc.)

2) You gotta get on a level where she feels more comfortable telling you about it than having her friends tell you.

3) Maybe pick a little better location. Even though you may have felt no one would see you two, she probably wasn't prepared to take that same risk, but felt telling you to stop would seem too prudish.
 
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