"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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going out with her friends on a first date

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are there any special technique, no-no's, types of strategies i should know before going in?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Be prepared to perform for her friends, she's more than likely going to turn to them for their opinion of you.
 
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Well, we know how much women love to run their mouths about anything..so get their opinions on stuff...and make sure you let them know you love details.

peace
 

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Charm their friends, lead them. Guy friends, if there is alpha male, either out alpha him or become his buddy. Your date will be leading her friends, and then when they are busy talking to her.
 

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Mr. Wolf said:
Charm their friends, lead them. Guy friends, if there is alpha male, either out alpha him or become his buddy. Your date will be leading her friends, and then when they are busy talking to her.
I'd also occasionally steer them into talking about the girl having them share funny stories involving her. It could diffuse any uneasy feelings and also bring you into the fold of the group by focusing on a common interest, her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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*bump*

i recently saw on tv the movie, "meet the parents" and i can really relate with what the main character guy was going thru in regards to the whole, meeting her social circle thing..
 

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The way I diffused my most recent situation was to out alpha the c0ckblocking male friends, and butter up the female ones. It seemed to work well because I heard I was "loved" by all.

Edit: I should note that this wasn't me and said womans first date, it was date #5.
 
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The first "No-No" I see is going out with her friends. This site has always preached that you should isolate the girl, can't do that in a crowd. You shouldn't have to work hard to impress her friends when all you really want to do is game HER.
 

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Yes, Watertiger, you're right. This one is LTR material, so I had to adjust my game a slight bit differently.
 
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rocco said:
Going out with her friends on a first date
Are there any special technique, no-no's, types of strategies i should know before going in?
Yes there is!! Never go out with her friends on a first date!!!! :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She's taking you with her friends on your "first-date"?

You're now her new "girl-friend". Escape while you can!
 

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yeah but i heard girls sometimes want to have a friend there, as "backup", with guys they have just met. this isnt common? i dont think it is such a big deal,imo
 

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well if her friends are going to this "first date" then it is not a date, you are hanging out with her and her friends. This is a good thing...it means you don't have to pay and still have an opportunity to seduce her.
 

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more the marrier now u get to pick who u like
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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