"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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going out with her friends on a first date

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are there any special technique, no-no's, types of strategies i should know before going in?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Be prepared to perform for her friends, she's more than likely going to turn to them for their opinion of you.
 
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Well, we know how much women love to run their mouths about anything..so get their opinions on stuff...and make sure you let them know you love details.

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Charm their friends, lead them. Guy friends, if there is alpha male, either out alpha him or become his buddy. Your date will be leading her friends, and then when they are busy talking to her.
 
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Mr. Wolf said:
Charm their friends, lead them. Guy friends, if there is alpha male, either out alpha him or become his buddy. Your date will be leading her friends, and then when they are busy talking to her.
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I'd also occasionally steer them into talking about the girl having them share funny stories involving her. It could diffuse any uneasy feelings and also bring you into the fold of the group by focusing on a common interest, her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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*bump*

i recently saw on tv the movie, "meet the parents" and i can really relate with what the main character guy was going thru in regards to the whole, meeting her social circle thing..
 
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The way I diffused my most recent situation was to out alpha the c0ckblocking male friends, and butter up the female ones. It seemed to work well because I heard I was "loved" by all.

Edit: I should note that this wasn't me and said womans first date, it was date #5.
 
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The first "No-No" I see is going out with her friends. This site has always preached that you should isolate the girl, can't do that in a crowd. You shouldn't have to work hard to impress her friends when all you really want to do is game HER.
 
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Yes, Watertiger, you're right. This one is LTR material, so I had to adjust my game a slight bit differently.
 
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Going out with her friends on a first date
Are there any special technique, no-no's, types of strategies i should know before going in?
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Yes there is!! Never go out with her friends on a first date!!!! :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She's taking you with her friends on your "first-date"?

You're now her new "girl-friend". Escape while you can!
 
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yeah but i heard girls sometimes want to have a friend there, as "backup", with guys they have just met. this isnt common? i dont think it is such a big deal,imo
 
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well if her friends are going to this "first date" then it is not a date, you are hanging out with her and her friends. This is a good thing...it means you don't have to pay and still have an opportunity to seduce her.
 
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more the marrier now u get to pick who u like
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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