"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going out solo, what is your take on this?

sangheilios

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Back in September I was going out solo on a weekly basis and felt that it was doing a lot for my approach skills and overall confidence. I only got totally blown off once and actually found the women were very open with me. However, the one thing I did notice was that I'd approach a pair of women, one of them would be actively engaging with me and definitely pursuing the conversation with me, so at least some interest, but then the other girl would pull her friend away after 5 or 10 minutes. I've found this significantly easier with someone else with me but it isn't always an option since a lot of times my friends don't want to go out.

I was considering rolling solo tonight but I'm tired and not really feeling it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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Back in September I was going out solo on a weekly basis and felt that it was doing a lot for my approach skills and overall confidence. I only got totally blown off once and actually found the women were very open with me. However, the one thing I did notice was that I'd approach a pair of women, one of them would be actively engaging with me and definitely pursuing the conversation with me, so at least some interest, but then the other girl would pull her friend away after 5 or 10 minutes. I've found this significantly easier with someone else with me but it isn't always an option since a lot of times my friends don't want to go out.

I was considering rolling solo tonight but I'm tired and not really feeling it.
Solo is easier if your cool with security, management, wait staff and other players in the environment.
 

djthiago1

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I usually go out with friends, but i approach solo, they're just regular guys who don't have the knowledge we have here, so .. =/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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