"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going out solo, what is your take on this?

sangheilios

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Back in September I was going out solo on a weekly basis and felt that it was doing a lot for my approach skills and overall confidence. I only got totally blown off once and actually found the women were very open with me. However, the one thing I did notice was that I'd approach a pair of women, one of them would be actively engaging with me and definitely pursuing the conversation with me, so at least some interest, but then the other girl would pull her friend away after 5 or 10 minutes. I've found this significantly easier with someone else with me but it isn't always an option since a lot of times my friends don't want to go out.

I was considering rolling solo tonight but I'm tired and not really feeling it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mrgoodstuff

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Back in September I was going out solo on a weekly basis and felt that it was doing a lot for my approach skills and overall confidence. I only got totally blown off once and actually found the women were very open with me. However, the one thing I did notice was that I'd approach a pair of women, one of them would be actively engaging with me and definitely pursuing the conversation with me, so at least some interest, but then the other girl would pull her friend away after 5 or 10 minutes. I've found this significantly easier with someone else with me but it isn't always an option since a lot of times my friends don't want to go out.

I was considering rolling solo tonight but I'm tired and not really feeling it.
Solo is easier if your cool with security, management, wait staff and other players in the environment.
 

djthiago1

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I usually go out with friends, but i approach solo, they're just regular guys who don't have the knowledge we have here, so .. =/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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