"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Going out solo, what is your take on this?

sangheilios

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Back in September I was going out solo on a weekly basis and felt that it was doing a lot for my approach skills and overall confidence. I only got totally blown off once and actually found the women were very open with me. However, the one thing I did notice was that I'd approach a pair of women, one of them would be actively engaging with me and definitely pursuing the conversation with me, so at least some interest, but then the other girl would pull her friend away after 5 or 10 minutes. I've found this significantly easier with someone else with me but it isn't always an option since a lot of times my friends don't want to go out.

I was considering rolling solo tonight but I'm tired and not really feeling it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Back in September I was going out solo on a weekly basis and felt that it was doing a lot for my approach skills and overall confidence. I only got totally blown off once and actually found the women were very open with me. However, the one thing I did notice was that I'd approach a pair of women, one of them would be actively engaging with me and definitely pursuing the conversation with me, so at least some interest, but then the other girl would pull her friend away after 5 or 10 minutes. I've found this significantly easier with someone else with me but it isn't always an option since a lot of times my friends don't want to go out.

I was considering rolling solo tonight but I'm tired and not really feeling it.
Solo is easier if your cool with security, management, wait staff and other players in the environment.
 

djthiago1

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I usually go out with friends, but i approach solo, they're just regular guys who don't have the knowledge we have here, so .. =/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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