"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
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Going clubbin for first time, anything should know or tips ?
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sharpshooter
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2)also, make sure you make some solid eye contact before trying to start up a convo, i made that mistake. Because clubs loud and if you just put your hand to a girls ear and scream in...chances are it won't do you any good lol
and... just have a good time
What if you don't have anyone to go with you? I've always feared of going to a club alone, but all my friends are usually couples or so geeky that they would never go to "such a place," so I'm kinda hesitant to go alone the first time.
MacDiddy
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DJBen
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and can be brilliant though, cause you dont have friends to worry about or anything else - and it makes you talk to other people cause theres no one else you know around
yo if its your first time going to the clubs. go out with your friends to get drunk, listen to a loud soundsystem (whatever style of music you and your friends like and enjoy their company). If you see a hot chick at the club, then go try to hit on her. if not, it doesn't matter cause you are having fun.
The whole problem with a lot of clubs these days is people are out to get b!tches and not to have fun. There a bunch of dudes gawking by the side of the bar trying to make eye contact ie glaring with girls that they come off super AFC. trust me, just go out and have fun (yes, maybe dance) and you will get more girls than standing at the bar like hawks, nahwhatimean?
peace, snoobs