"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Going clubbin for first time, anything should know or tips ?
- Thread starter Kravy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sharpshooter
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2)also, make sure you make some solid eye contact before trying to start up a convo, i made that mistake. Because clubs loud and if you just put your hand to a girls ear and scream in...chances are it won't do you any good lol
and... just have a good time
What if you don't have anyone to go with you? I've always feared of going to a club alone, but all my friends are usually couples or so geeky that they would never go to "such a place," so I'm kinda hesitant to go alone the first time.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
and can be brilliant though, cause you dont have friends to worry about or anything else - and it makes you talk to other people cause theres no one else you know around
yo if its your first time going to the clubs. go out with your friends to get drunk, listen to a loud soundsystem (whatever style of music you and your friends like and enjoy their company). If you see a hot chick at the club, then go try to hit on her. if not, it doesn't matter cause you are having fun.
The whole problem with a lot of clubs these days is people are out to get b!tches and not to have fun. There a bunch of dudes gawking by the side of the bar trying to make eye contact ie glaring with girls that they come off super AFC. trust me, just go out and have fun (yes, maybe dance) and you will get more girls than standing at the bar like hawks, nahwhatimean?
peace, snoobs