"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Going clubbin for first time, anything should know or tips ?
- Thread starter Kravy
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sharpshooter
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2)also, make sure you make some solid eye contact before trying to start up a convo, i made that mistake. Because clubs loud and if you just put your hand to a girls ear and scream in...chances are it won't do you any good lol
and... just have a good time
What if you don't have anyone to go with you? I've always feared of going to a club alone, but all my friends are usually couples or so geeky that they would never go to "such a place," so I'm kinda hesitant to go alone the first time.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
and can be brilliant though, cause you dont have friends to worry about or anything else - and it makes you talk to other people cause theres no one else you know around
yo if its your first time going to the clubs. go out with your friends to get drunk, listen to a loud soundsystem (whatever style of music you and your friends like and enjoy their company). If you see a hot chick at the club, then go try to hit on her. if not, it doesn't matter cause you are having fun.
The whole problem with a lot of clubs these days is people are out to get b!tches and not to have fun. There a bunch of dudes gawking by the side of the bar trying to make eye contact ie glaring with girls that they come off super AFC. trust me, just go out and have fun (yes, maybe dance) and you will get more girls than standing at the bar like hawks, nahwhatimean?
peace, snoobs