"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Giving her my number first

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tearjerker08

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I think I might have made a miscalculation in my efforts towards a chick. I just gave her my number first, not a huge disaster but after thinking about it, I really should have gotten her's first. After flirtacious conversing (almost everything is flirtacious with this girl) I said well call me sometime (knowing she didn't have my number.) She says I don't have it, and say "555-5555. Use em" I think the execution was fine, but who would agree that I made a mistake. And if so how hard will it be to recover from it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kristian Garcia

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1. Ask the girls number after a 25-min date or chat. It works best,because it wont be a high risk that she knows you are after her private thing.

2. Phone number is not importand. etc.= She maybe gives your phone number but she will never answer,its maybe not even hers(happends rarely) and it happends that you have her number but you will never meet her again. The most importand is to see her again.Least try rule number one 1.


I dont think your very screwed yet. I think there is one more chance.
 
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GaryUranga

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man I was just thinking doing this with a girl Im pretty sure already lieks me just to make her do the effort, give her my number and telling her "txt me yours later" so thats shes the one iniciating
 
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