"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Giving her my number first

tearjerker08

New Member
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
I think I might have made a miscalculation in my efforts towards a chick. I just gave her my number first, not a huge disaster but after thinking about it, I really should have gotten her's first. After flirtacious conversing (almost everything is flirtacious with this girl) I said well call me sometime (knowing she didn't have my number.) She says I don't have it, and say "555-5555. Use em" I think the execution was fine, but who would agree that I made a mistake. And if so how hard will it be to recover from it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Kristian Garcia

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2008
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
1. Ask the girls number after a 25-min date or chat. It works best,because it wont be a high risk that she knows you are after her private thing.

2. Phone number is not importand. etc.= She maybe gives your phone number but she will never answer,its maybe not even hers(happends rarely) and it happends that you have her number but you will never meet her again. The most importand is to see her again.Least try rule number one 1.


I dont think your very screwed yet. I think there is one more chance.
 

GaryUranga

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2006
Messages
835
Reaction score
7
man I was just thinking doing this with a girl Im pretty sure already lieks me just to make her do the effort, give her my number and telling her "txt me yours later" so thats shes the one iniciating
 
Top