"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Giving her my number first

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tearjerker08

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I think I might have made a miscalculation in my efforts towards a chick. I just gave her my number first, not a huge disaster but after thinking about it, I really should have gotten her's first. After flirtacious conversing (almost everything is flirtacious with this girl) I said well call me sometime (knowing she didn't have my number.) She says I don't have it, and say "555-5555. Use em" I think the execution was fine, but who would agree that I made a mistake. And if so how hard will it be to recover from it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kristian Garcia

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1. Ask the girls number after a 25-min date or chat. It works best,because it wont be a high risk that she knows you are after her private thing.

2. Phone number is not importand. etc.= She maybe gives your phone number but she will never answer,its maybe not even hers(happends rarely) and it happends that you have her number but you will never meet her again. The most importand is to see her again.Least try rule number one 1.


I dont think your very screwed yet. I think there is one more chance.
 
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GaryUranga

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man I was just thinking doing this with a girl Im pretty sure already lieks me just to make her do the effort, give her my number and telling her "txt me yours later" so thats shes the one iniciating
 
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