"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Giving her my number first

tearjerker08

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I think I might have made a miscalculation in my efforts towards a chick. I just gave her my number first, not a huge disaster but after thinking about it, I really should have gotten her's first. After flirtacious conversing (almost everything is flirtacious with this girl) I said well call me sometime (knowing she didn't have my number.) She says I don't have it, and say "555-5555. Use em" I think the execution was fine, but who would agree that I made a mistake. And if so how hard will it be to recover from it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kristian Garcia

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1. Ask the girls number after a 25-min date or chat. It works best,because it wont be a high risk that she knows you are after her private thing.

2. Phone number is not importand. etc.= She maybe gives your phone number but she will never answer,its maybe not even hers(happends rarely) and it happends that you have her number but you will never meet her again. The most importand is to see her again.Least try rule number one 1.


I dont think your very screwed yet. I think there is one more chance.
 

GaryUranga

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man I was just thinking doing this with a girl Im pretty sure already lieks me just to make her do the effort, give her my number and telling her "txt me yours later" so thats shes the one iniciating
 
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