ok, something i realised that can help all of you in a Relationship, giving your girlfriend full securtiy in a relationship is a bad thing, the more security you give them the more easily they will get bored of the relationship, so instead of saying "wow, tonite was the best night i've had in ages" just say "tonite was fun", from 1st hand experience never give your girlfriend the idea that you wont ever break up with her because she is the best girlfriend you've ever had, keep them on their toes
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Giving girls security
- Thread starter OneByOne
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Wouldn't that be summed up by "dont be predictable"?
not really, im not saying dont be predictable at all, im just saying dont give your gf full security in the relatonship, so to say dont tell her that you love her everyday, dont phone her everynight just to say goodnight
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
Never make it so that you act as if she's the only girl in the world for you
Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!
Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security
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Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!
Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security
!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
misunderstood??
Master Don Juan
Exactly, in her little battle to 'win over your heart' she has to keep striving for victory, because if she is victorious, what's left for her to do? Nothing. Think of it like a video game, you keep playing that sucker till you win but after you finally win, how much longer do you keep playing until you get yourself a new game? Not too damn long, same principle can be applied here. If she thinks she 'won' then it's game over buddy, time for a new game.