"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Giving girls security

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ok, something i realised that can help all of you in a Relationship, giving your girlfriend full securtiy in a relationship is a bad thing, the more security you give them the more easily they will get bored of the relationship, so instead of saying "wow, tonite was the best night i've had in ages" just say "tonite was fun", from 1st hand experience never give your girlfriend the idea that you wont ever break up with her because she is the best girlfriend you've ever had, keep them on their toes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wouldn't that be summed up by "dont be predictable"?
 

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not really, im not saying dont be predictable at all, im just saying dont give your gf full security in the relatonship, so to say dont tell her that you love her everyday, dont phone her everynight just to say goodnight
 

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Never make it so that you act as if she's the only girl in the world for you
Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!

Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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misunderstood??

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Exactly, in her little battle to 'win over your heart' she has to keep striving for victory, because if she is victorious, what's left for her to do? Nothing. Think of it like a video game, you keep playing that sucker till you win but after you finally win, how much longer do you keep playing until you get yourself a new game? Not too damn long, same principle can be applied here. If she thinks she 'won' then it's game over buddy, time for a new game.
 
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