ok, something i realised that can help all of you in a Relationship, giving your girlfriend full securtiy in a relationship is a bad thing, the more security you give them the more easily they will get bored of the relationship, so instead of saying "wow, tonite was the best night i've had in ages" just say "tonite was fun", from 1st hand experience never give your girlfriend the idea that you wont ever break up with her because she is the best girlfriend you've ever had, keep them on their toes
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Giving girls security
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Wouldn't that be summed up by "dont be predictable"?
not really, im not saying dont be predictable at all, im just saying dont give your gf full security in the relatonship, so to say dont tell her that you love her everyday, dont phone her everynight just to say goodnight
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
Never make it so that you act as if she's the only girl in the world for you
Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!
Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security
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Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!
Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security
!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
misunderstood??
Master Don Juan
Exactly, in her little battle to 'win over your heart' she has to keep striving for victory, because if she is victorious, what's left for her to do? Nothing. Think of it like a video game, you keep playing that sucker till you win but after you finally win, how much longer do you keep playing until you get yourself a new game? Not too damn long, same principle can be applied here. If she thinks she 'won' then it's game over buddy, time for a new game.