ok, something i realised that can help all of you in a Relationship, giving your girlfriend full securtiy in a relationship is a bad thing, the more security you give them the more easily they will get bored of the relationship, so instead of saying "wow, tonite was the best night i've had in ages" just say "tonite was fun", from 1st hand experience never give your girlfriend the idea that you wont ever break up with her because she is the best girlfriend you've ever had, keep them on their toes
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Giving girls security
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Wouldn't that be summed up by "dont be predictable"?
not really, im not saying dont be predictable at all, im just saying dont give your gf full security in the relatonship, so to say dont tell her that you love her everyday, dont phone her everynight just to say goodnight
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
Never make it so that you act as if she's the only girl in the world for you
Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!
Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security
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Never make her think she has total control over you
Never ever call them constantly or message them constatly or talk to them for a long time...!
Taking away their security will create mystery and will make the relationship last longer and also it will give you more power and security
!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
misunderstood??
Master Don Juan
Exactly, in her little battle to 'win over your heart' she has to keep striving for victory, because if she is victorious, what's left for her to do? Nothing. Think of it like a video game, you keep playing that sucker till you win but after you finally win, how much longer do you keep playing until you get yourself a new game? Not too damn long, same principle can be applied here. If she thinks she 'won' then it's game over buddy, time for a new game.