Give me your advice about this.

[BackInTheGame78]

Don't overthink this. Keep your cool. Invite her over but protect yourself, don't rely on her being on birth control. And enjoy while it lasts.

Modern Man Advice

He never got started...she ghosted.

 

[derby1]

Hey @derby1 i just want to thank you for this. Sincerely.

The girl vanished, just as you said it would happen, but i was prepared thanks to you.

Please keep sharing your knowledge, you are helping to raise future generations of DJs.

Thank you for updating us.

Sorry it sucks brother, Its absolutely sickening when someone shows high interest and makes you feel like your doing everything right,

Then they have the audacity to ghost you as if you were the needy one.

Are you under the impression she was on the rebound? they usually are?

Another thing i've come to accept in the last year is NO GIRL IS SINGLE, NOT ONE

you are under strict instructions never to initiate any kind of DM to this chic now bro, it will confirm you as an orbiter

 

[Modern Man Advice]

He never got started...she ghosted.

Oh, man can't believe we are late for the party which is why we said "enjoy while it lasts", @derby1 had the best advice about this situation so not surprised she went MIA.

This is a good learning opportunity for the forum.

Modern Man Advice

 

[manfrombelow]

OP should have banged her when he had the chance instead of overworrying about the "future" with her.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

OP should have banged her when he had the chance instead of overworrying about the "future" with her.

OP remember this. No matter how well you think the date went or how much interest she seems to have in you there is NO GUARANTEE of you ever seeing her again after any date. Act accordingly.

 

[manfrombelow]

Another thing i've come to accept in the last year is NO GIRL IS SINGLE, NOT ONE

Actually this is only true for girls who are at least 6/10. I have seen many 5/10 chicks who are desperate for a guy's touch because they have none.

 

[derby1]

Actually this is only true for girls who are at least 6/10. I have seen many 5/10 chicks who are desperate for a guy's touch because they have none.

we must live in different areas, because in the welfare UK, bugle whales have harems

 

[manfrombelow]

we must live in different areas, because in the welfare UK, bugle whales have harems

I don't live in the decaying Western world so yeah.

 

[manfrombelow]

OP remember this. No matter how well you think the date went or how much interest she seems to have in you there is NO GUARANTEE of you ever seeing her again after any date. Act accordingly.

Exact-fvcking-ly.

I have learn this lessons the hard way many occasions in the past.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Exact-fvcking-ly.

I have learn this lessons the hard way many occasions in the past.

lolz

 

[christie]

The only way a 5/10 here goes without is if she has absurdly high standards. Which, of course, they often do....higher than more attractive women in my experience.

standards are even higher for the 2.5 to 3.5 girls.....but only if she's initiated selfdevelopment and are super confident they can land their expected guy when they're hotter/more feminine one day.

 

[manfrombelow]

The only way a 5/10 here goes without is if she has absurdly high standards. Which, of course, they often do....higher than more attractive women in my experience.

So there are more simps in the West now than where I'm from?

 

[manfrombelow]

I guarantee it, and I don't even know specifically where you're from. Its not so much simps as it is the market forces driving scarcity and entitlement. You have the media, provocative dress, and p0rn gassing up sexual standards and entitlement for both genders. You have the total collapse of social pressure to marry or be monogamous facilitating entitlement and serial dating. You have sex on demand primarily for women online, where they can sleep with a man way out of her league and further gas up her ego and sexual expectations within 20 minutes.

I'm from a developing East Asian country where so far hasn't been infested (yet) by crazy neo-feminism and liberalism, and where people still somewhat believe and embrace traditional values, including the belief in natural gender roles, and the main political spectrum is still quite right-wing.

And porn here is still illegal.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

The only way a 5/10 here goes without is if she has absurdly high standards. Which, of course, they often do....higher than more attractive women in my experience.

They are called 49er's(4s that think they are 9s) and some temporarily frustrated 7-8.5/10 guy will bang these girls on a slow tuesday and enter some down-low secret casual relationship fling with them and raise these girls standards. In Nashville, it was pretty common for chubby 4s-6s to have that slow tuesday bf that looked liked Sam Hunt in sales or skinny Jason Mamoa that was a bartender.

 

[deBrito]

Always remember there is a clock ticking from the first time you interact with a woman and the time you bang them. You never know where you are with any woman's particular clock so that is why the advice is to move fast.

Perfect, i need some more exp to better that.

Are you under the impression she was on the rebound? they usually are?

you are under strict instructions never to initiate any kind of DM to this chic now bro, it will confirm you as an orbiter

Yes, i do have the impression. And i'll not initiate anything.


Lesson learned, mistake never to be repeated. There are victories and learning opportunities, never losses for those who are willing to learn the lessons life throw them. Thanks for the feedback from all of you, i'm still in the beggining of the walk.

 

[TheNewStyle123]

What are you worried about? I don’t understand what the problem is. Are you afraid to bang her or you’re wanting an LTR with her? If it’s just about banging then I think you need to just get the job done unless there’s something you aren’t telling us. Sounds like she is ready and willing. If you want an LTR you don’t know near enough about her at this point.

I don’t necessarily disagree with the others - but I don’t think there’s enough information you’ve given to say she’s definitively love-bombing or interested in money. I feel like you’re leaving a lot out.

OP, I'm with @Barrister, I would just bang her, unless she's giving off some serious psycho 'Fatal Attraction' vibes, she doesn't sound like the type of chick that is going to stalk you or anything like that if she has plenty of guy options.

 

[Gstring]

why the **** she would say "marry" in a sentence to me?

She's a professional slvt. By her nature she doesn't sht where she eats, and thus don't fck where there is chance to ruin her reputation. She'd fck a guy from across town, it's okey, but you are in her gym. She has this madonna -wh0re complex, where she wants to fck and suck and swallow, but also wants to remain 'virgin' in the eyes of her potential lovers.

 

[derby1]

Lesson learned, mistake never to be repeated. There are victories and learning opportunities, never losses for those who are willing to learn the lessons life throw them. Thanks for the feedback from all of you, i'm still in the beggining of the walk.

You've done nothing wrong, These hoes enjoy messing men around, but the dopamine crash is coming..

Ive said many a times I get laid a lot less, now I know all this stuff, I used to get laid more being a beta simp,

I also ended up with alcoholism and mental health meds. from all the stress of how good they are at messing men around,

Dated an A.W for 3 years, what a mess

Im now red pill to the hill, control my own destiny

 

[derby1]

Messing with duped men who are thinking girlfriend when she is thinking fun.

If a woman initiates 90% of the comms, calls me twice a day and shows super high interest between dates, Im going to presume she is interested in becoming part of my life.

for said woman to then completely ghost out the blue, with the audacity that I have been the needy one, I think theyre weird.

most men aren't Don Demarco , they are normal decent guys & they would be quite happy to have a girlfriend, to then have a woman do a total 180 on them it can crash ones mental health. Again most men haven't got 6 in the chamber

 

[derby1]

Please explain why you would think that? By part of your life I will assume you mean permanent to semi permanent possibilities in a reasonably close future.

Yes Im presuming its a plate I can add who enjoys my company, lets face it if they were replying the total opposite with one word answers it would be confirmed as terrible interest.

So when they have the audacity to do a 180 like I was the lovebomber, after ive gone through the total peacocking to get her out in the first place, I just think theyre mentally handicapped. which most women single over 28 are