"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Give me your advice about this.

deBrito

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Honestly, when it comes about being rejected, i prefer to take one shot at the forehead and die quickly, rather than taking 3 shots at my chest and die bleeding.

When she starts giving me attention and compliments i start to get drunk by it, and the thought of intimacy comes to my mind, and it fvcking svcks not being able to capitalize.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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derby1

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You realize this is a standard manipulation to see how easily she can get you...right?
This has never served me any favours, whatsoever and trust me Ive been round here long enough...

Ive had some of the best relationships when Ive made myself available 3 times in a week.

Ive also had plenty of girls bail on me when they found out my times valuable, it didnt make me anymore attractive in the slightest, being unavailable.

its all nonsense
 

AureliusMaximus

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do i bring this gal to my place?
Always her place as rule of thumb dude.
That keeps the mystery alive in her head: plus if the chick goes crazy she don't know 100% where you live unless you given her the full address.
 
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