"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Give me the brutal truth of cold approaching

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Dave, don't you sell cars? That is one thing I have never sold, but sales in general pays well, because most people find it miserable and all the rejection gets to them. Do you take turns with other salesmen being "up" for random people who walk on to the lot? How is that really any different than talking to a random woman? Selling the car sounds a lot more difficult to me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i don't meet women in my daily routine

and especially not with my very strict standards
Fvck your retard standards. Your standard needs to be one wholl take care of your c0ck. You can work up from there. The world will be your oyster when you get about a half a dozen slays. Start enjoying life rather than disqualifying you and everyone else from jump.
 

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Dave, don't you sell cars? That is one thing I have never sold, but sales in general pays well, because most people find it miserable and all the rejection gets to them. Do you take turns with other salesmen being "up" for random people who walk on to the lot? How is that really any different than talking to a random woman? Selling the car sounds a lot more difficult to me.

selling a car is a lot more difficult because i need to sell 25 cars a month to make a lot of money

I only need 1 woman to say yes but she has to fit all my requirements
 

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what's the biggest barrier in the way? whether or not girl is actually wanting to meet someone?
Whether or not you have the stamina and mental fortitude to keep going until you get laid.

If you had infinite willpower and stamina, you'd sleep with 100+ girls via cold approach no problem.

You know how they say that it took 2000 tries to find the correct filament to make a working lightbulb? It's like that. Most people would give up at like 100 tops. But those people will never be immortalized in history as successful game changing inventors
 

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selling a car is a lot more difficult because i need to sell 25 cars a month to make a lot of money

I only need 1 woman to say yes but she has to fit all my requirements
You know the game required to sell those cars. Your ignoring the game for dating in our culture. Your inthe bottom 1% for game. Your maybe better than 98% for income 80% for looks and 90% for being a great friend. But bottom 1% for seducing women in our game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Go pickup "Daygame mastery" by nick Krause. It's like a bible for approach, text, etc.
 

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Uhhh... This seems like a pretty bad opener. A good closer, but just right off the bat opening with "give me your number lets get together"? Maybe if he only approaches girls giving heavy IOIs

UHHH

the point was to get him in the process of talking to girls.

Not to give him what he THINKS is a sure fire opener, so the first time he gets shot down he comes crying back to sosauve saying:

"You guys lied! None of these lines work!''

The point is to get experience, to remember something EASY to say QUICKLY, get rejected, and move on.

Not to stand there for three hours trying to remember which IOI means what and which sosuave guru had the BEST opener based on that micro-specific situation.

The best lines come from your own brain based on your own experience. Not from dudes on the internet.
 

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UHHH

the point was to get him in the process of talking to girls.

Not to give him what he THINKS is a sure fire opener, so the first time he gets shot down he comes crying back to sosauve saying:

"You guys lied! None of these lines work!''

The point is to get experience, to remember something EASY to say QUICKLY, get rejected, and move on.

Not to stand there for three hours trying to remember which IOI means what and which sosuave guru had the BEST opener based on that micro-specific situation.

The best lines come from your own brain based on your own experience. Not from dudes on the internet.
I'm usually very good at making friends. I make small talk and if the other person likes me (judging by body language and chemistry), i ask if they want to hang out. I can probably do a lot of the same things with approaching women...except you obviously have an element of flirting/sexual interest there
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Uhhh... This seems like a pretty bad opener. A good closer, but just right off the bat opening with "give me your number lets get together"?
He could go with the apocalypse opener.
 

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You better get it together Dave before it's too late, your not getting any younger.
 

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What's the best way to do it?

1)talk for a quick 5 to 10 minutes and ask her out?
2)talk for 25 to 40 minutes to build some comfort level?

What's a realistic closing percentage in terms of getting a date? let's say you're a 7/10 guy with a nice physique, can you expect even 20% of women to want to go out with you?

Aren't most hot girls in their 20s in a relationship?
All your questions are answered here:

https://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
 

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I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude.

I talked for a minute but I had to leave cause there were customers behind me
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Keep talking. Some of the men had beem saying all along that talking to multiple women is a large part of the game.
I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude right?
 

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I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude right?
Keep macking.
 

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I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude right?
"I have to go now, but give me a way to contact you so that we may continue this conversation later."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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