"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give me the brutal truth of cold approaching

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Dave, don't you sell cars? That is one thing I have never sold, but sales in general pays well, because most people find it miserable and all the rejection gets to them. Do you take turns with other salesmen being "up" for random people who walk on to the lot? How is that really any different than talking to a random woman? Selling the car sounds a lot more difficult to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff

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i don't meet women in my daily routine

and especially not with my very strict standards
Fvck your retard standards. Your standard needs to be one wholl take care of your c0ck. You can work up from there. The world will be your oyster when you get about a half a dozen slays. Start enjoying life rather than disqualifying you and everyone else from jump.
 

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Dave, don't you sell cars? That is one thing I have never sold, but sales in general pays well, because most people find it miserable and all the rejection gets to them. Do you take turns with other salesmen being "up" for random people who walk on to the lot? How is that really any different than talking to a random woman? Selling the car sounds a lot more difficult to me.

selling a car is a lot more difficult because i need to sell 25 cars a month to make a lot of money

I only need 1 woman to say yes but she has to fit all my requirements
 

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what's the biggest barrier in the way? whether or not girl is actually wanting to meet someone?
Whether or not you have the stamina and mental fortitude to keep going until you get laid.

If you had infinite willpower and stamina, you'd sleep with 100+ girls via cold approach no problem.

You know how they say that it took 2000 tries to find the correct filament to make a working lightbulb? It's like that. Most people would give up at like 100 tops. But those people will never be immortalized in history as successful game changing inventors
 

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selling a car is a lot more difficult because i need to sell 25 cars a month to make a lot of money

I only need 1 woman to say yes but she has to fit all my requirements
You know the game required to sell those cars. Your ignoring the game for dating in our culture. Your inthe bottom 1% for game. Your maybe better than 98% for income 80% for looks and 90% for being a great friend. But bottom 1% for seducing women in our game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go pickup "Daygame mastery" by nick Krause. It's like a bible for approach, text, etc.
 

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Uhhh... This seems like a pretty bad opener. A good closer, but just right off the bat opening with "give me your number lets get together"? Maybe if he only approaches girls giving heavy IOIs

UHHH

the point was to get him in the process of talking to girls.

Not to give him what he THINKS is a sure fire opener, so the first time he gets shot down he comes crying back to sosauve saying:

"You guys lied! None of these lines work!''

The point is to get experience, to remember something EASY to say QUICKLY, get rejected, and move on.

Not to stand there for three hours trying to remember which IOI means what and which sosuave guru had the BEST opener based on that micro-specific situation.

The best lines come from your own brain based on your own experience. Not from dudes on the internet.
 

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UHHH

the point was to get him in the process of talking to girls.

Not to give him what he THINKS is a sure fire opener, so the first time he gets shot down he comes crying back to sosauve saying:

"You guys lied! None of these lines work!''

The point is to get experience, to remember something EASY to say QUICKLY, get rejected, and move on.

Not to stand there for three hours trying to remember which IOI means what and which sosuave guru had the BEST opener based on that micro-specific situation.

The best lines come from your own brain based on your own experience. Not from dudes on the internet.
I'm usually very good at making friends. I make small talk and if the other person likes me (judging by body language and chemistry), i ask if they want to hang out. I can probably do a lot of the same things with approaching women...except you obviously have an element of flirting/sexual interest there
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Uhhh... This seems like a pretty bad opener. A good closer, but just right off the bat opening with "give me your number lets get together"?
He could go with the apocalypse opener.
 

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You better get it together Dave before it's too late, your not getting any younger.
 

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What's the best way to do it?

1)talk for a quick 5 to 10 minutes and ask her out?
2)talk for 25 to 40 minutes to build some comfort level?

What's a realistic closing percentage in terms of getting a date? let's say you're a 7/10 guy with a nice physique, can you expect even 20% of women to want to go out with you?

Aren't most hot girls in their 20s in a relationship?
All your questions are answered here:

https://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
 

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I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude.

I talked for a minute but I had to leave cause there were customers behind me
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Keep talking. Some of the men had beem saying all along that talking to multiple women is a large part of the game.
I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude right?
 

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I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude right?
Keep macking.
 

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I went to grocery store today and had this beautiful Russian cashier

After the transaction was done - she saw the name on my card (it has my middle name on it for a weird reason - Tigrani) and she goes "oh wow that's a beautiful name". That's her just trying to make small talk with me right? Russian chicks are often quite attracted to Armenian men. There's no way she does that if I'm an old ugly fat dude right?
"I have to go now, but give me a way to contact you so that we may continue this conversation later."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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