"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give me advice on this one gentlemen im gonna need it.

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Ok this is a tricky one. I added a cute chick on instagram a while back. Everytime i posted something she would like it. For awhile this went on. Yesterday she randomly added me on snapchat and sent me a snap. I started talked to here and we talked back and for about 2 hrs. I sent her a snap saying her if you want to make talking easier heres my #. She i guess fell asleep and didnt open the snap until 8 hrs later to which she replied by by sendibg me a picture of a shirt with a funny dog saying? At this point how should i approach the situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ignore her for a few days.

If she is interested she will reach out.
 

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Or just ask her out man. It's a yes or a no. Little wasted time either way
 

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Call and talk to her for hours.o_O
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
 
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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
Perhaps she's a stupid female with three brain cells and you're reading too much into it?
 

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don't spend a lot of time chatting with her. You are not one of her girlfriends. Just ask her out then nc till the date.
 

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Got it. So just striaght up say let me take you out over snap and be done with it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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.... then declare your undying love... then stalk her... finally beg her to marry you. That is if you want her to disappear.

If you like her ask her out. This really isn't that hard.
Lolz!:p
 
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