"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Give me advice on this one gentlemen im gonna need it.

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Ok this is a tricky one. I added a cute chick on instagram a while back. Everytime i posted something she would like it. For awhile this went on. Yesterday she randomly added me on snapchat and sent me a snap. I started talked to here and we talked back and for about 2 hrs. I sent her a snap saying her if you want to make talking easier heres my #. She i guess fell asleep and didnt open the snap until 8 hrs later to which she replied by by sendibg me a picture of a shirt with a funny dog saying? At this point how should i approach the situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ignore her for a few days.

If she is interested she will reach out.
 
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Or just ask her out man. It's a yes or a no. Little wasted time either way
 
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Call and talk to her for hours.o_O
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
 
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Ryan Adams said:
Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
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Perhaps she's a stupid female with three brain cells and you're reading too much into it?
 
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don't spend a lot of time chatting with her. You are not one of her girlfriends. Just ask her out then nc till the date.
 
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Got it. So just striaght up say let me take you out over snap and be done with it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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.... then declare your undying love... then stalk her... finally beg her to marry you. That is if you want her to disappear.

If you like her ask her out. This really isn't that hard.
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Lolz!:p
 
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