"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Give me advice on this one gentlemen im gonna need it.

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Ok this is a tricky one. I added a cute chick on instagram a while back. Everytime i posted something she would like it. For awhile this went on. Yesterday she randomly added me on snapchat and sent me a snap. I started talked to here and we talked back and for about 2 hrs. I sent her a snap saying her if you want to make talking easier heres my #. She i guess fell asleep and didnt open the snap until 8 hrs later to which she replied by by sendibg me a picture of a shirt with a funny dog saying? At this point how should i approach the situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ignore her for a few days.

If she is interested she will reach out.
 

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Or just ask her out man. It's a yes or a no. Little wasted time either way
 

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Call and talk to her for hours.o_O
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
 
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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
Perhaps she's a stupid female with three brain cells and you're reading too much into it?
 

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don't spend a lot of time chatting with her. You are not one of her girlfriends. Just ask her out then nc till the date.
 

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Got it. So just striaght up say let me take you out over snap and be done with it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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.... then declare your undying love... then stalk her... finally beg her to marry you. That is if you want her to disappear.

If you like her ask her out. This really isn't that hard.
Lolz!:p
 
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