"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Give me advice on this one gentlemen im gonna need it.

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Ok this is a tricky one. I added a cute chick on instagram a while back. Everytime i posted something she would like it. For awhile this went on. Yesterday she randomly added me on snapchat and sent me a snap. I started talked to here and we talked back and for about 2 hrs. I sent her a snap saying her if you want to make talking easier heres my #. She i guess fell asleep and didnt open the snap until 8 hrs later to which she replied by by sendibg me a picture of a shirt with a funny dog saying? At this point how should i approach the situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ignore her for a few days.

If she is interested she will reach out.
 

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Or just ask her out man. It's a yes or a no. Little wasted time either way
 

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Call and talk to her for hours.o_O
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
 
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Thing is i said to her over snapchat do you want to text me to make talking easier. And she didnt open the snap until 12 hrs later and reaponded with a picture of a irrelevant dog meme. Lol i didnt want to ask twice.
Perhaps she's a stupid female with three brain cells and you're reading too much into it?
 

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don't spend a lot of time chatting with her. You are not one of her girlfriends. Just ask her out then nc till the date.
 

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Got it. So just striaght up say let me take you out over snap and be done with it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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.... then declare your undying love... then stalk her... finally beg her to marry you. That is if you want her to disappear.

If you like her ask her out. This really isn't that hard.
Lolz!:p
 
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