"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give in to booty call or no? QUICK RESPONSES!

Ian Gots Game

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I had a booty call about a month ago that I hooked up with. A week after I called her to get some more, and she said quote "I don't think we can hang out anymore, because I have a boyfriend now and i LOVE him! Sorry!" OK fine....
Now, three weeks after, she calls me and says we should hang out tonight. I told her I was busy and I'd call her back in a little while.
I want some opinions. Should I call her back? Should I hook up w/ her? Or should I blow her off like she did to me... Cause I don't want her callin the shots.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anomalous

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Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
 

Ian Gots Game

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Originally posted by whyshy
Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
 

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Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
 

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When she respond say.

YOU: Hey girl, just because your going to get drunk doesn't mean you can have me. You had your chance but..............NOW (STRESS THIS) well, you just have to go at the end of the line and wait like all the other girls.



After

YOU:(If you really want to go with her): You know what HB's name, today is your lucky day.....................Lets go have some fun. But only on one condition, you wont try to hit on me.'


She'll be so confused that she won't know what to do. SO when you come on to her, she won't refused because you showed dominance.

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
good point.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ian Gots Game

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Phone convo:
ME: I have plans I'll call you next week.
HER: How do you know there will be a next week?
ME: Because you are in love with me and will go out with me next week.
HER: UGHH... (hung up)

Hmm... good or bad?
 

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Urrr, good for both, bad for both.

You should that you were the man by telling her she's in love (did you say in a serious or joking way?) She hung up because she didn't want to get played or she was disgusted.

You should have said:
Her: how do you know theres going to be a next week
You: your right, i don't think im available next week, and you'll probably be boring by next week..........late

END

You probably won't see her again. She wants to use you as a Holar back boy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
Dude

What did that accomplish? Proving that you "dont need her" or some crap?

Should have went out and gotten some *****.
 
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