"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Give in to booty call or no? QUICK RESPONSES!

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I had a booty call about a month ago that I hooked up with. A week after I called her to get some more, and she said quote "I don't think we can hang out anymore, because I have a boyfriend now and i LOVE him! Sorry!" OK fine....
Now, three weeks after, she calls me and says we should hang out tonight. I told her I was busy and I'd call her back in a little while.
I want some opinions. Should I call her back? Should I hook up w/ her? Or should I blow her off like she did to me... Cause I don't want her callin the shots.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
 
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Originally posted by whyshy
Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
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:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
 
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Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
 
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When she respond say.

YOU: Hey girl, just because your going to get drunk doesn't mean you can have me. You had your chance but..............NOW (STRESS THIS) well, you just have to go at the end of the line and wait like all the other girls.



After

YOU:(If you really want to go with her): You know what HB's name, today is your lucky day.....................Lets go have some fun. But only on one condition, you wont try to hit on me.'


She'll be so confused that she won't know what to do. SO when you come on to her, she won't refused because you showed dominance.

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
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good point.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phone convo:
ME: I have plans I'll call you next week.
HER: How do you know there will be a next week?
ME: Because you are in love with me and will go out with me next week.
HER: UGHH... (hung up)

Hmm... good or bad?
 
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Urrr, good for both, bad for both.

You should that you were the man by telling her she's in love (did you say in a serious or joking way?) She hung up because she didn't want to get played or she was disgusted.

You should have said:
Her: how do you know theres going to be a next week
You: your right, i don't think im available next week, and you'll probably be boring by next week..........late

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You probably won't see her again. She wants to use you as a Holar back boy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
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Dude

What did that accomplish? Proving that you "dont need her" or some crap?

Should have went out and gotten some *****.
 
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