"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Give in to booty call or no? QUICK RESPONSES!

Ian Gots Game

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I had a booty call about a month ago that I hooked up with. A week after I called her to get some more, and she said quote "I don't think we can hang out anymore, because I have a boyfriend now and i LOVE him! Sorry!" OK fine....
Now, three weeks after, she calls me and says we should hang out tonight. I told her I was busy and I'd call her back in a little while.
I want some opinions. Should I call her back? Should I hook up w/ her? Or should I blow her off like she did to me... Cause I don't want her callin the shots.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anomalous

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Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
 

Ian Gots Game

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Originally posted by whyshy
Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
 

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Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
 

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When she respond say.

YOU: Hey girl, just because your going to get drunk doesn't mean you can have me. You had your chance but..............NOW (STRESS THIS) well, you just have to go at the end of the line and wait like all the other girls.



After

YOU:(If you really want to go with her): You know what HB's name, today is your lucky day.....................Lets go have some fun. But only on one condition, you wont try to hit on me.'


She'll be so confused that she won't know what to do. SO when you come on to her, she won't refused because you showed dominance.

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
good point.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ian Gots Game

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Phone convo:
ME: I have plans I'll call you next week.
HER: How do you know there will be a next week?
ME: Because you are in love with me and will go out with me next week.
HER: UGHH... (hung up)

Hmm... good or bad?
 

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Urrr, good for both, bad for both.

You should that you were the man by telling her she's in love (did you say in a serious or joking way?) She hung up because she didn't want to get played or she was disgusted.

You should have said:
Her: how do you know theres going to be a next week
You: your right, i don't think im available next week, and you'll probably be boring by next week..........late

END

You probably won't see her again. She wants to use you as a Holar back boy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
Dude

What did that accomplish? Proving that you "dont need her" or some crap?

Should have went out and gotten some *****.
 
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