"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ian Gots Game

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I had a booty call about a month ago that I hooked up with. A week after I called her to get some more, and she said quote "I don't think we can hang out anymore, because I have a boyfriend now and i LOVE him! Sorry!" OK fine....
Now, three weeks after, she calls me and says we should hang out tonight. I told her I was busy and I'd call her back in a little while.
I want some opinions. Should I call her back? Should I hook up w/ her? Or should I blow her off like she did to me... Cause I don't want her callin the shots.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
 

Ian Gots Game

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Originally posted by whyshy
Say, "no i can't i have a girlfriend and we really love each other. (in a mocking way)"

then you call the shots whether you want to go or not.

Example:

You: Im coming in 1 hour so get ready for the fun.
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
 

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Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
 

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When she respond say.

YOU: Hey girl, just because your going to get drunk doesn't mean you can have me. You had your chance but..............NOW (STRESS THIS) well, you just have to go at the end of the line and wait like all the other girls.



After

YOU:(If you really want to go with her): You know what HB's name, today is your lucky day.....................Lets go have some fun. But only on one condition, you wont try to hit on me.'


She'll be so confused that she won't know what to do. SO when you come on to her, she won't refused because you showed dominance.

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
Err, I wouldn't do it via text messages. It's hard to get a point across that your sarcastic, call her up.
good point.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Phone convo:
ME: I have plans I'll call you next week.
HER: How do you know there will be a next week?
ME: Because you are in love with me and will go out with me next week.
HER: UGHH... (hung up)

Hmm... good or bad?
 

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Urrr, good for both, bad for both.

You should that you were the man by telling her she's in love (did you say in a serious or joking way?) She hung up because she didn't want to get played or she was disgusted.

You should have said:
Her: how do you know theres going to be a next week
You: your right, i don't think im available next week, and you'll probably be boring by next week..........late

END

You probably won't see her again. She wants to use you as a Holar back boy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
:D HAHA Awesome. She texted me:
HER: Take me out and I can get drunk and we can party.
ME: Hold on let me ask my girlfriend if its ok...
ME: Sorry, she said no.

She hasn't texted me back but I'll update when she does.
GIVE ME MORE!!!
Dude

What did that accomplish? Proving that you "dont need her" or some crap?

Should have went out and gotten some *****.
 
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