"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*&^%$#@! girls!!!

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chancer

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AHHHHH!!! seriously...

**** girls... Man, when i first came to this site, yes, i was a chump, but I picked up a lot of stuff from this site. Eventually, there came a point where I was dating some girl for about a month then I got mad when we split... I didn't want to say the things I said, but i felt like I had to, to keep my pride (it wasn't anything out of anger or frustration). It changed me. I pretty much lost emotion with girls and it was hard for me to find anyone I liked. Now I have 3 girls I talk to (2 now). I'm going out with one of them tonight. But... it doesn't seem exciting now that another one really pissed me off. She wasn't the hottest of the three, but she was cool. Anyway, i don't think i'll be able to trust or allow myself to like any girl for a while. **** it... I'm going to the gym.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sh!t happens!

I think that you should just take a time-out for a few days... then you can "get back in the game" and do what you wanna do.

I wish u well man.;)
 
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