"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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*&^%$#@! girls!!!

chancer

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AHHHHH!!! seriously...

**** girls... Man, when i first came to this site, yes, i was a chump, but I picked up a lot of stuff from this site. Eventually, there came a point where I was dating some girl for about a month then I got mad when we split... I didn't want to say the things I said, but i felt like I had to, to keep my pride (it wasn't anything out of anger or frustration). It changed me. I pretty much lost emotion with girls and it was hard for me to find anyone I liked. Now I have 3 girls I talk to (2 now). I'm going out with one of them tonight. But... it doesn't seem exciting now that another one really pissed me off. She wasn't the hottest of the three, but she was cool. Anyway, i don't think i'll be able to trust or allow myself to like any girl for a while. **** it... I'm going to the gym.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Climax

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Sh!t happens!

I think that you should just take a time-out for a few days... then you can "get back in the game" and do what you wanna do.

I wish u well man.;)
 
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