"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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*&^%$#@! girls!!!

chancer

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AHHHHH!!! seriously...

**** girls... Man, when i first came to this site, yes, i was a chump, but I picked up a lot of stuff from this site. Eventually, there came a point where I was dating some girl for about a month then I got mad when we split... I didn't want to say the things I said, but i felt like I had to, to keep my pride (it wasn't anything out of anger or frustration). It changed me. I pretty much lost emotion with girls and it was hard for me to find anyone I liked. Now I have 3 girls I talk to (2 now). I'm going out with one of them tonight. But... it doesn't seem exciting now that another one really pissed me off. She wasn't the hottest of the three, but she was cool. Anyway, i don't think i'll be able to trust or allow myself to like any girl for a while. **** it... I'm going to the gym.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Climax

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Sh!t happens!

I think that you should just take a time-out for a few days... then you can "get back in the game" and do what you wanna do.

I wish u well man.;)
 
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