"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
edmond
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Simple, Drop them.
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Find girls that you can attract and work your way up.
If a girl treats you like a creep it's because you are.
no, not really. i aint ugly and girls find me funny. i was jus wonderin why sum of them start nice than act like total B**ches.Sebastien_Valmont said:Because you're ugly and you have no personality. Tough Break.
Find girls that you can attract and work your way up.
If a girl treats you like a creep it's because you are.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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That's happened to me many times. I got a little to into it and they get *****y because they're real and won't sugar coat not being into you.
About 80% of the time that was going on for me was when I was looking ugly or was not having a good day personality wise.
Otherwise they're just *****es, in which case you should just enjoy them being mean to other people.
so how do u come on to a chick without coming on as a desperate lovesick wuss?Sebastien_Valmont said:You're probably coming on as a creep.
That's happened to me many times. I got a little to into it and they get *****y because they're real and won't sugar coat not being into you.
About 80% of the time that was going on for me was when I was looking ugly or was not having a good day personality wise.
Otherwise they're just *****es, in which case you should just enjoy them being mean to other people.
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The girl has to know who you are, the key is social networking. Make friends and network your way to her. Hang out with a girl who has a lot of friends in a group setting. That way they know that you're a tight guy because their friend thinks you're a cool guy.
As long as one person thinks you're the best, everyone thinks you're the best.
If alcohol is involved and you're at a party, be terse, say a little thing that gets her to smile. Make sure her eyes say they want you and don't expect anything big to happen. Keep doing what you do saying "hi" to her or smiling at her while you pass her, eventually she'll be buttered up and ready to talk to you.
This is what works for me though. It might be better for you to do it another way. Just keep dealing with crazy *****es until you've figured out how they react to you individually.