"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
edmond
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Simple, Drop them.
Sebastien_Valmont
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Find girls that you can attract and work your way up.
If a girl treats you like a creep it's because you are.
no, not really. i aint ugly and girls find me funny. i was jus wonderin why sum of them start nice than act like total B**ches.Sebastien_Valmont said:Because you're ugly and you have no personality. Tough Break.
Find girls that you can attract and work your way up.
If a girl treats you like a creep it's because you are.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sebastien_Valmont
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That's happened to me many times. I got a little to into it and they get *****y because they're real and won't sugar coat not being into you.
About 80% of the time that was going on for me was when I was looking ugly or was not having a good day personality wise.
Otherwise they're just *****es, in which case you should just enjoy them being mean to other people.
so how do u come on to a chick without coming on as a desperate lovesick wuss?Sebastien_Valmont said:You're probably coming on as a creep.
That's happened to me many times. I got a little to into it and they get *****y because they're real and won't sugar coat not being into you.
About 80% of the time that was going on for me was when I was looking ugly or was not having a good day personality wise.
Otherwise they're just *****es, in which case you should just enjoy them being mean to other people.
Sebastien_Valmont
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The girl has to know who you are, the key is social networking. Make friends and network your way to her. Hang out with a girl who has a lot of friends in a group setting. That way they know that you're a tight guy because their friend thinks you're a cool guy.
As long as one person thinks you're the best, everyone thinks you're the best.
If alcohol is involved and you're at a party, be terse, say a little thing that gets her to smile. Make sure her eyes say they want you and don't expect anything big to happen. Keep doing what you do saying "hi" to her or smiling at her while you pass her, eventually she'll be buttered up and ready to talk to you.
This is what works for me though. It might be better for you to do it another way. Just keep dealing with crazy *****es until you've figured out how they react to you individually.