Vekhematu
Don Juan
I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes I know what you're talking about. I'm in high school and I see that often. I used to be attracted to this type during my AFC years. But I have learned that they have low self-esteem and have issues to the max. Don't be fooled by their looks or "innocence."Vekhematu said:I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
The ones I talked to responded horribly to qualifying and teasing, with short and defensive answers. They also seemed slightly turned off by my sense of entitlement. Oh well.Frayzer said:They respond well to pretty much any type of game...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If they suck, why should he keep away?dutchmaster said:They suck, keep away
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.Stort_Brød said:ok where to begin....
at the end of the day girls are girls bro they may look different from goth to prep but they all have vaginas and a set of tits well you would hope so anyways. treat them no differently than any other girl.
I personally like the more alternative sort of chicks than the lil club skanks that everyone seems to go after. if they have died hair, tatts, piercings, leather and listen to metal then I am down to go to funky town.
Yes you will find a lot of these sorts of chicks to be a cavern of red flags full of low self esteem and god only knows what else, BUT that is only a few fish in the entire sea. A lot of the best people I know are these social outcasts or weirdos with coloured hair, tatts, piercings and all sorts. You go to a metal bar and I can guarantee you that the whole place will be 100% friendlier than the top dance club down the road.
Metal heads, Bogans, Goths, Alternatives whatever label you want to give them I have found to be the easiest to talk to, to approach, to create friendships and relationships and yes of course to have some of the best sex of my life *yes sure I don't mind a bit of the old kink every now and then* but don't make the mistake that every chick is into **** or bondage or any of that stuff, they aren't all sexual deviants but you will find that a lot of them are a lot more open to the usual missionary if ya know what I meanhaha.
Gather round kiddies its story time....
once upon a time ago in a metal bar far far away from here Uncle Stort was meeting up this nice lil lass and her mates that he had been talking to. Once we had a bit of a talk she took me over to her friends to introduce old uncle stort to the group. within 5 minutes one of her friends was on my lap whispering into my ear "damn stort how come you are so young, you are damn sexy" So I look her up and down and then grab tight on her hair and pull her head back exposing her neck and latch on with an almighty *but sensual* bite. she got so worked up that she started hooking up with me, I look over at the chick that I originally came to meet who was looking astounded and just like WTF so I grab her bring her over and get them to hook up and then they were both on me. Needless to say Uncle Stort didn't get much sleep that night and neither did the 2 broads.
now kids the moral of the story is METAL CHICKS RULE!
what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
but really all in all they are no different to a normal chick if you find the right ones.
each to their own bro, I like to keep a wide circle of friends for all kinds of benefits. I love the gym bunnies tooTheODB said:Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.
F**k metal girls, get mainstream bishes.
Alone in/around the smoke shops, middle of the day. Two different ones. I also talked to a few online that were giving good replies at first, but then stopped. One even blocked me(after I called her dull and depressing).Stort_Brød said:what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.