Vekhematu
Don Juan
I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yes I know what you're talking about. I'm in high school and I see that often. I used to be attracted to this type during my AFC years. But I have learned that they have low self-esteem and have issues to the max. Don't be fooled by their looks or "innocence."Vekhematu said:I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
The ones I talked to responded horribly to qualifying and teasing, with short and defensive answers. They also seemed slightly turned off by my sense of entitlement. Oh well.Frayzer said:They respond well to pretty much any type of game...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If they suck, why should he keep away?dutchmaster said:They suck, keep away
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.Stort_Brød said:ok where to begin....
at the end of the day girls are girls bro they may look different from goth to prep but they all have vaginas and a set of tits well you would hope so anyways. treat them no differently than any other girl.
I personally like the more alternative sort of chicks than the lil club skanks that everyone seems to go after. if they have died hair, tatts, piercings, leather and listen to metal then I am down to go to funky town.
Yes you will find a lot of these sorts of chicks to be a cavern of red flags full of low self esteem and god only knows what else, BUT that is only a few fish in the entire sea. A lot of the best people I know are these social outcasts or weirdos with coloured hair, tatts, piercings and all sorts. You go to a metal bar and I can guarantee you that the whole place will be 100% friendlier than the top dance club down the road.
Metal heads, Bogans, Goths, Alternatives whatever label you want to give them I have found to be the easiest to talk to, to approach, to create friendships and relationships and yes of course to have some of the best sex of my life *yes sure I don't mind a bit of the old kink every now and then* but don't make the mistake that every chick is into **** or bondage or any of that stuff, they aren't all sexual deviants but you will find that a lot of them are a lot more open to the usual missionary if ya know what I meanhaha.
Gather round kiddies its story time....
once upon a time ago in a metal bar far far away from here Uncle Stort was meeting up this nice lil lass and her mates that he had been talking to. Once we had a bit of a talk she took me over to her friends to introduce old uncle stort to the group. within 5 minutes one of her friends was on my lap whispering into my ear "damn stort how come you are so young, you are damn sexy" So I look her up and down and then grab tight on her hair and pull her head back exposing her neck and latch on with an almighty *but sensual* bite. she got so worked up that she started hooking up with me, I look over at the chick that I originally came to meet who was looking astounded and just like WTF so I grab her bring her over and get them to hook up and then they were both on me. Needless to say Uncle Stort didn't get much sleep that night and neither did the 2 broads.
now kids the moral of the story is METAL CHICKS RULE!
what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
but really all in all they are no different to a normal chick if you find the right ones.
each to their own bro, I like to keep a wide circle of friends for all kinds of benefits. I love the gym bunnies tooTheODB said:Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.
F**k metal girls, get mainstream bishes.
Alone in/around the smoke shops, middle of the day. Two different ones. I also talked to a few online that were giving good replies at first, but then stopped. One even blocked me(after I called her dull and depressing).Stort_Brød said:what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.