Vekhematu
Don Juan
I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes I know what you're talking about. I'm in high school and I see that often. I used to be attracted to this type during my AFC years. But I have learned that they have low self-esteem and have issues to the max. Don't be fooled by their looks or "innocence."Vekhematu said:I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
The ones I talked to responded horribly to qualifying and teasing, with short and defensive answers. They also seemed slightly turned off by my sense of entitlement. Oh well.Frayzer said:They respond well to pretty much any type of game...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If they suck, why should he keep away?dutchmaster said:They suck, keep away
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.Stort_Brød said:ok where to begin....
at the end of the day girls are girls bro they may look different from goth to prep but they all have vaginas and a set of tits well you would hope so anyways. treat them no differently than any other girl.
I personally like the more alternative sort of chicks than the lil club skanks that everyone seems to go after. if they have died hair, tatts, piercings, leather and listen to metal then I am down to go to funky town.
Yes you will find a lot of these sorts of chicks to be a cavern of red flags full of low self esteem and god only knows what else, BUT that is only a few fish in the entire sea. A lot of the best people I know are these social outcasts or weirdos with coloured hair, tatts, piercings and all sorts. You go to a metal bar and I can guarantee you that the whole place will be 100% friendlier than the top dance club down the road.
Metal heads, Bogans, Goths, Alternatives whatever label you want to give them I have found to be the easiest to talk to, to approach, to create friendships and relationships and yes of course to have some of the best sex of my life *yes sure I don't mind a bit of the old kink every now and then* but don't make the mistake that every chick is into **** or bondage or any of that stuff, they aren't all sexual deviants but you will find that a lot of them are a lot more open to the usual missionary if ya know what I meanhaha.
Gather round kiddies its story time....
once upon a time ago in a metal bar far far away from here Uncle Stort was meeting up this nice lil lass and her mates that he had been talking to. Once we had a bit of a talk she took me over to her friends to introduce old uncle stort to the group. within 5 minutes one of her friends was on my lap whispering into my ear "damn stort how come you are so young, you are damn sexy" So I look her up and down and then grab tight on her hair and pull her head back exposing her neck and latch on with an almighty *but sensual* bite. she got so worked up that she started hooking up with me, I look over at the chick that I originally came to meet who was looking astounded and just like WTF so I grab her bring her over and get them to hook up and then they were both on me. Needless to say Uncle Stort didn't get much sleep that night and neither did the 2 broads.
now kids the moral of the story is METAL CHICKS RULE!
what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
but really all in all they are no different to a normal chick if you find the right ones.
each to their own bro, I like to keep a wide circle of friends for all kinds of benefits. I love the gym bunnies tooTheODB said:Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.
F**k metal girls, get mainstream bishes.
Alone in/around the smoke shops, middle of the day. Two different ones. I also talked to a few online that were giving good replies at first, but then stopped. One even blocked me(after I called her dull and depressing).Stort_Brød said:what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.