Vekhematu
Don Juan
I was hoping these types would be more outspoken and expressive, but it seems the opposite. They are mostly low self-esteem, substituting appearance for personality. Would you game them, and if so, what do they respond to?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girls with wild hair colors, multiple piercings, etc...
- Thread starter Vekhematu
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Eh, they are all different. I generally do not go for these girls as they aren't my type nor do I find I have a lot in common with them other than that I play instruments. But in terms of game, just game as you normally would; personality generalizations are tough, even if their interests are often similar.
Vekhematu
Don Juan
I just wanted to try something different. Lol, the hentai thing.
Vekhematu
Don Juan
Anybody have experience with this?
Wow, nobody relates to 90% of what I post. My topic about pubes got the most response.
Wow, nobody relates to 90% of what I post. My topic about pubes got the most response.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Yes I know what you're talking about. I'm in high school and I see that often. I used to be attracted to this type during my AFC years. But I have learned that they have low self-esteem and have issues to the max. Don't be fooled by their looks or "innocence."Vekhematu said:
These types are on the "Avoid list."
They respond well to pretty much any type of game, including some AFC's game. They are generally wh*rny and psycho.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
They suck, keep away
Smok1nAce
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theres a girl i work with who is this type 4'11, maybe a HB2. she burbs and curses out loud and is always desperate for attention. she said "we need more good looking workers cause im tired of looking at Smok1nAce", she basically wants the D, i was almost embarrassed to even be told that.
Vekhematu
Don Juan
The ones I talked to responded horribly to qualifying and teasing, with short and defensive answers. They also seemed slightly turned off by my sense of entitlement. Oh well.Frayzer said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Wolfgang D
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If they suck, why should he keep away?dutchmaster said:
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
I say game them/approach them just as any other girl. Enough with all these generalizations already. You never know till you try.
I've always wanted to ask a chick with pink dyed hair if her carpet matches her drapes.
I've always wanted to ask a chick with pink dyed hair if her carpet matches her drapes.
Krueg
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Women are Women, their all the same!! Some may be crazier or sluttier than the rest but, you dont need to nit-pick every little detail. Find a girl you like and go for it. Some of you guys are over-analyzing everything and its taking you no where and probably not helping your "game". Take sh!t for what it is, probably save you alot of time...
sph21
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Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
ok where to begin....
at the end of the day girls are girls bro they may look different from goth to prep but they all have vaginas and a set of tits well you would hope so anyways. treat them no differently than any other girl.
I personally like the more alternative sort of chicks than the lil club skanks that everyone seems to go after. if they have died hair, tatts, piercings, leather and listen to metal then I am down to go to funky town.
Yes you will find a lot of these sorts of chicks to be a cavern of red flags full of low self esteem and god only knows what else, BUT that is only a few fish in the entire sea. A lot of the best people I know are these social outcasts or weirdos with coloured hair, tatts, piercings and all sorts. You go to a metal bar and I can guarantee you that the whole place will be 100% friendlier than the top dance club down the road.
Metal heads, Bogans, Goths, Alternatives whatever label you want to give them I have found to be the easiest to talk to, to approach, to create friendships and relationships and yes of course to have some of the best sex of my life *yes sure I don't mind a bit of the old kink every now and then* but don't make the mistake that every chick is into **** or bondage or any of that stuff, they aren't all sexual deviants but you will find that a lot of them are a lot more open to the usual missionary if ya know what I mean
haha.
Gather round kiddies its story time....
once upon a time ago in a metal bar far far away from here Uncle Stort was meeting up this nice lil lass and her mates that he had been talking to. Once we had a bit of a talk she took me over to her friends to introduce old uncle stort to the group. within 5 minutes one of her friends was on my lap whispering into my ear "damn stort how come you are so young, you are damn sexy" So I look her up and down and then grab tight on her hair and pull her head back exposing her neck and latch on with an almighty *but sensual* bite. she got so worked up that she started hooking up with me, I look over at the chick that I originally came to meet who was looking astounded and just like WTF so I grab her bring her over and get them to hook up and then they were both on me. Needless to say Uncle Stort didn't get much sleep that night and neither did the 2 broads.
now kids the moral of the story is METAL CHICKS RULE!
what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
but really all in all they are no different to a normal chick if you find the right ones.
at the end of the day girls are girls bro they may look different from goth to prep but they all have vaginas and a set of tits well you would hope so anyways. treat them no differently than any other girl.
I personally like the more alternative sort of chicks than the lil club skanks that everyone seems to go after. if they have died hair, tatts, piercings, leather and listen to metal then I am down to go to funky town.
Yes you will find a lot of these sorts of chicks to be a cavern of red flags full of low self esteem and god only knows what else, BUT that is only a few fish in the entire sea. A lot of the best people I know are these social outcasts or weirdos with coloured hair, tatts, piercings and all sorts. You go to a metal bar and I can guarantee you that the whole place will be 100% friendlier than the top dance club down the road.
Metal heads, Bogans, Goths, Alternatives whatever label you want to give them I have found to be the easiest to talk to, to approach, to create friendships and relationships and yes of course to have some of the best sex of my life *yes sure I don't mind a bit of the old kink every now and then* but don't make the mistake that every chick is into **** or bondage or any of that stuff, they aren't all sexual deviants but you will find that a lot of them are a lot more open to the usual missionary if ya know what I mean
haha. Gather round kiddies its story time....
once upon a time ago in a metal bar far far away from here Uncle Stort was meeting up this nice lil lass and her mates that he had been talking to. Once we had a bit of a talk she took me over to her friends to introduce old uncle stort to the group. within 5 minutes one of her friends was on my lap whispering into my ear "damn stort how come you are so young, you are damn sexy" So I look her up and down and then grab tight on her hair and pull her head back exposing her neck and latch on with an almighty *but sensual* bite. she got so worked up that she started hooking up with me, I look over at the chick that I originally came to meet who was looking astounded and just like WTF so I grab her bring her over and get them to hook up and then they were both on me. Needless to say Uncle Stort didn't get much sleep that night and neither did the 2 broads.
now kids the moral of the story is METAL CHICKS RULE!
what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
but really all in all they are no different to a normal chick if you find the right ones.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Metal chicks? Meh. I can count the number of truly good looking metal chicks that I've met over the years on maybe two hands. I've had sex with two of them. Overall, regular-ass chicks are better.Stort_Brød said:ok where to begin....
at the end of the day girls are girls bro they may look different from goth to prep but they all have vaginas and a set of tits well you would hope so anyways. treat them no differently than any other girl.
I personally like the more alternative sort of chicks than the lil club skanks that everyone seems to go after. if they have died hair, tatts, piercings, leather and listen to metal then I am down to go to funky town.
Yes you will find a lot of these sorts of chicks to be a cavern of red flags full of low self esteem and god only knows what else, BUT that is only a few fish in the entire sea. A lot of the best people I know are these social outcasts or weirdos with coloured hair, tatts, piercings and all sorts. You go to a metal bar and I can guarantee you that the whole place will be 100% friendlier than the top dance club down the road.
Metal heads, Bogans, Goths, Alternatives whatever label you want to give them I have found to be the easiest to talk to, to approach, to create friendships and relationships and yes of course to have some of the best sex of my life *yes sure I don't mind a bit of the old kink every now and then* but don't make the mistake that every chick is into **** or bondage or any of that stuff, they aren't all sexual deviants but you will find that a lot of them are a lot more open to the usual missionary if ya know what I mean
Gather round kiddies its story time....
once upon a time ago in a metal bar far far away from here Uncle Stort was meeting up this nice lil lass and her mates that he had been talking to. Once we had a bit of a talk she took me over to her friends to introduce old uncle stort to the group. within 5 minutes one of her friends was on my lap whispering into my ear "damn stort how come you are so young, you are damn sexy" So I look her up and down and then grab tight on her hair and pull her head back exposing her neck and latch on with an almighty *but sensual* bite. she got so worked up that she started hooking up with me, I look over at the chick that I originally came to meet who was looking astounded and just like WTF so I grab her bring her over and get them to hook up and then they were both on me. Needless to say Uncle Stort didn't get much sleep that night and neither did the 2 broads.
now kids the moral of the story is METAL CHICKS RULE!
what settings did you meet these girls at bro? at night? in a group? alone at a coffee shop?
but really all in all they are no different to a normal chick if you find the right ones.
F**k metal girls, get mainstream bishes.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Unless she likes metallica bros thats a keeper. Lol
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
each to their own bro, I like to keep a wide circle of friends for all kinds of benefits. I love the gym bunnies tooTheODB said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Girls with wild hair colors, multiple piercings, etc...what do they respond to?
It's a plea for attention, so give them some attention.
It's a plea for attention, so give them some attention.
Vekhematu
Don Juan
Alone in/around the smoke shops, middle of the day. Two different ones. I also talked to a few online that were giving good replies at first, but then stopped. One even blocked me(after I called her dull and depressing).Stort_Brød said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.