Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
It aint even like that.JackPrescott said:Try the Gay websites. So Suave is for heterosexual males. Thanks.![]()
I LOOK for quality, not some random tatted up wh0re.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It aint even like that.JackPrescott said:Try the Gay websites. So Suave is for heterosexual males. Thanks.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maybe you'd prefer a nice untatted Femboy!!!Moofahsa said:It aint even like that.
I LOOK for quality, not some random tatted up wh0re.
JackPrescott said:Again, try "Georgemichael.com" and you can find some dates in men's restrooms in Bus Depots across America, So suave is for men who love women, thanks.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
you forgot nipple piercingsChrizZ said:Tattoos and belly piercings is the sexiest thing a woman can have IMO
Oh give me a break. What century are we living in here??? That's like saying all guys with earrings are gay.saber said:some girls without tattoos are screwed up
but imo girls with tattoos are more liekly screwed up
if she seems all right then just go for it
the only thing a tattoo gaurantees about a person is a lack in foresight
Tramp Stamp! They get 'em in their twenties, but just imagine what you'll be seeing when they're in they're 50s and 60s. lolsukatempik said:The thing is, a lot of hot girls these days have tattoos. Playmates, models you name it.
It's the "in" thing.
The only type of tattoo I like is the one on her lower back (slightly above her ass), especially if the design is simple. It's very sexy to look at it while I'm banging her doggystyle.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thank god theres someone else here who doesnt have views of the 50s or 60's.SunnyD said:Oh give me a break. What century are we living in here??? That's like saying all guys with earrings are gay.
Quoted for truth.oakraiderz2 said:How many girls without tattoos are f*cked up in the head?
I'd like to say I have a good head on my shoulders...but just because I made some dumb decisions when I was younger, I'm automatically judged as being fVcked up...oakraiderz2 said:Thank god theres someone else here who doesnt have views of the 50s or 60's.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.